Recently, while talking with my six year old daughter, she shared a story of her friend who no longer has a mother. When Megan asked if she missed not having a mommy, the girl replied “I don’t know, I never met her”. That was sad to hear, but not knowing this little girl or her family I instantly I began to think of how unfortunate her situation is instead of visioning multiple “Moms” with family and friends all gathering together to nurture and care for the child, each with their own unique qualities and abilities to show love and affection. I then realized, it’s probably due to my own life experiences that I’m so quick to form opinions about situations. I was quick to turn it around in my own mind, but I couldn’t help but think about the things that could be missed if never experienced, and the many things I choose not to experience.
Life is made up of small moments, I don't remember everything I've done over the course of the last forty five years, but I do have memories of minutes and hours. These small moments in time, the little twists and turns of fate, are the result of decisions I made. One bad decision years ago landed me on a bike, then I met a triathlete who introduced me to the sport, as a result, I got hooked on Triathlons. For the past nine years it has become a huge lifestyle change, it’s now part of who I am, yet if I never had experienced that first event I would never hav made the decision to change. The results are many due to the situation I had created and decisions (both mine and others) that were made. I suddenly became proactive in my life instead of standing around like a spectator watching and complaining as life passed by. In order for me to change one thing, I had to become willing to change everything!
I find running to be calming, mentally it slows everything down and I’m able to put things in perspective, the sound of my feet hitting the pavement keeping rhythm with my heart beat while fresh air flows thru my lungs… Priceless! Training for me has become more of a child like obsession to be playing outside. Swimming, bike rides, running, it sounds more like summer camp than the dreaded “workout”. Change is a good thing. I have a love for endurance sports, it’s a relationship I have nurtured for years, It’s a “love-hate” relationship but I wouldn’t appreciate it any other way. Unlike Megan’s little friend, I had a choice as to how I was going to live my life, we all do! Should I just sit and watch as things happen or should I step up, take a chance, and become willing to change direction?
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